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I’ve met too many people think suffering is a badge of honor or a right of passage… it’s not… it’s just a gateway to misery.. and other people are not obligated to join you in your misery or suffering…
If this is you… sincerely, get help. For yourself and everyone close to you.
As a high value woman, it is crucial to know what you will and will not tolerate, to know what your standards are. You should be highly selective of your dating partners, and have a clear set of expectations in what constitutes a suitable partner for you. This implies that for a certain timeframe that you are comfortable with (whether that is 2 months or 1 year) you should be vetting your potential partner.
Don’t be blinded by their potential, and instead focus on what is! Take their actions at face value, not their words or what your idealistic imagination fashions him into being. If they tell you you’re too good for them, or they play around, they’re inconsistent, they’re indecisive, or any of the above mentioned red flags – for the sake of your mind, body, heart and soul, walk away at the first red flag. I promise you it doesn’t get better, it only gets worse. A partner that is beneficial for your overall wellbeing will be so from the beginning; you don’t need to go through fire and brimstome to prove anything, or transform his life, or upgrade him. That’s his job. All you have to do is set your high standards, and say no to anything less.
And you know why? Because you deserve it! You’re worthy of the best man, the best relationship, the best love, because just as well you offer the best. Protect your mind, your heart, your body and spirit from any low vibrational experiences. Protect yourself by treating yourself like the treasure you are: worthy of a king, not a jester.
Remember my dear ladies, if you say yes to anything below your standards … the only person who will go through heartache, wasted time, wasted effort and more, the only person who will go through fire and brimstone, is you.
So stay committed to your happiness above all.
-𝓛𝓾𝓶𝓮𝓷
You can’t change people. They are who they show you and not who you want to be. They can only pretend for a short while but the truth will always eep through. This is how people ending up holding on to toxic relationships for so long. Because those few weeks give them hope. Because they are attached to an idea and haven’t allowed themselves to grieve the reality of a person from the idea of them they created for them in their minds.
we shouldn’t feel embarrassed for liking our favorite things. our favorite foods, books, movies, shows, hobbies, activities, games, clothes, etc. and we shouldn’t feel guilty for allowing ourselves to have time dedicated to those things either. life challenges us a number of times, and if these are the (harmless) little things that make life feel more bearable, then so be it. you deserve to do things for you. things that make you feel at peace and at home.
